Life
October 26, 2011
Once again, i learnt through my daily life. As i think back and reflect, it definitely takes 2 hands to clap in all situations. Everyone needs to realise that they need to settle whatever that is internal, before they can handle any external factors, that is if they even try, for external factors, by definition are the surroundings and environment that we are unable to poke a finger into.
If we have said something, promises/convictions or what not, we ought to carry it out, be it subtle or outwardly, we need to make the effort, and people will see it, whether you intentionally show it or not. At the end of the day, i have begun to erase words off my love language, for it has started to lose its value, which comes the term “talk is cheap”. In fact, its free, we dont need to pay for the words we use, at least not in monetary value i would say, but the spillover effects/consequences is another matter per say.
Whatever the case is, i have waited long enough and I’m running thin on my patience, and if we do see the effort to improve together, i would gladly, or even want to wait for even more. I really do hope to receive, or be at the receiving end once in a while. It is really, mind blowing to have to wait for something you so desire, and wish upon it every time, at every opportunity, thinking there will be a surprise, but it never happens.
Should we be glad that we actually waited for something we want, or should we be sad that we actually had to wait. (neglecting the fact that good things are worth waiting for)
